Who stole your happiness?

Is not difficult to see that a person can be happy, and generally depends on the following two aspects, one is outside, that we live in a social environment; inside on the one hand, that is, our personal life.

Today, we are not happy, or from the analysis of these areas:

1. lack of faith

Most people do not know their own life expectations, says, basically, this life you have to know what you really want. Confucius roughness dinner, drinking, when sleeping, not even a pillow, on the curved arm as a pillow, but Confucius said "enjoy"; Yan Hui "a bamboo utensil for holding cooked rice food, a gourd drinking, in the slum", others feel this life can't have, but beauty can do "not changed its music". Why is that?

Because they know what's the life pursuit.

2. from the comparison Western proverb says: a person is not happy, not happy, does not depend on how big her accomplishment, but from neighbors to see their eyes.

When people seek not happiness, but happiness more than others, happy to stay away from us.

3. are happy without knowing A lighted lamp, you're not going to pay attention, but if it is flashing, or is Tokiaki fight, you will start to notice.

Also, sometimes we can become the envy of others, and we are all at sea not only when we lose, we will be realized.

4. good things not moving "Dongfeng no matter, makeup flowers". We may not have the ability to create beauty, but for the beauty of nature, for others to create beauty, we appreciate it?

Natural beauty, artistic beauty, spiritual beauty, the beauty of life, create beauty, we often turn a blind eye, and not feel at all.

5. do not know how to handouts

Zhang Shangying in the Song dynasty says, "do not enjoy good good", one will know how to pay the talent rather than simply ask for happiness. Charity is not the patent of the wealthy.

Hundreds of millions of donation is a handout to the disaster area, give a smile to a stranger is a handout.

6. Not enough How much a person wants to get will be satisfied?

Discontented! When you are to have no shoes and no joy, you do pay attention to people who had no feet?

Low! Haluo·aerbote is the United States Director of the University of California.

Once, he walked in Weber Street West Road, full of dissatisfaction and confusion, because he has been out of a job, is now ready to find a new job, he is like a man who collapsed on the road, completely lost confidence and courage.

Just then, all of a sudden to the one who loses a leg, he sat on a small wooden platform, mounted below the Chair from the skating wheels down, his hands grabbed a piece of wood, holding yourself across the street. Hello when I saw him, he happens to have been a street, is preparing to put themselves up a few inches to the pavement, in his little cart that stick out when Hello eyes as opposed, that persons with disabilities are happy to Harrow said: "your morning! Sir, the weather is really good in the morning, isn't it? "Harrow felt a sense of satisfaction at that time. Hello: I have two legs, but he has no legs, but he was so happy, I do also have a reason for unhappy?

So Hello becomes more confident, pleased to go.

7. anxiety ubiquitous For example security anxiety anxiety anxiety, health, wealth, and children education employment anxiety, especially anxiety of belonging.

Only free people will be happy.

8. too much stress

There is political pressure, working pressure, pressure on the family, emotional pressure, economic pressure, pressure on the human, psychological pressure and stress on the body.

9. the standard is too high Using your own criteria to request. "I can do it, why not you?

” Standard requirements for other people for their own. "He can do it, why I can't do it?

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10. can't hold on to yourself

A man become parents, sons, became the wife of her husband, a good father to son, become friends and good partners, became a colleague of good partner, but if a man not want to own, sum his own fights, this person is not coordinated, naturally hard to true happiness.